The Mercy Desk

"...A few years after my dad died, my mom moved out of the house they had shared for more than forty years, and asked my brothers and me to go through the house and see if there were any of his things we wanted.

Only one really mattered to me: the desk. It’s where I sit as I type this now. It’s where I will turn around in a few minutes when my kids get home from school and hug them as they run into the room. It’s where the man who modeled God’s mercy for me taught me to hope in it, always."

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Coming Soon to West Texas: The Way Retreat Center

"In the spiritual life, the word discipline means 'the effort to create some space in which God can act.' Discipline means to prevent everything in your life from being filled up. Discipline means that somewhere you're not occupied, and certainly not preoccupied. In the spiritual life, discipline means to create that space in which something can happen that you hadn't planned or counted on."
– Henri Nouwen

I often joke [by telling the truth] that Kara discourages me from using the words "I'm excited" when I speak, because my face and gestures are completely unconvincing. That very well may be true, but sometimes I still have to use the word, and perhaps I can convey that excitement a bit more effectively by writing about it here than by telling you about it face-to-face.

Regardless of whether I can do so or not, the fact is that Kara and I are both thrilled about something coming soon to the Permian Basin. She and I have both been impacted deeply in retreat settings, and it is one of the ways in which we most enjoy finding some open space for God in our lives and helping others to do so, but the locations for retreats are pretty limited in our area. We are very grateful, though, to now be connected with a group of folks who have been working to provide such a place, and to see it become a reality.

The Way Retreat Center will be in northeast Midland, and will break ground in the summer of 2016. Kara is serving on the advisory board as plans continue, and we have both been able to be in on some of the conversations regarding the kind of space that is being created–and we are both thoroughly, excitedly, impressed by this and grateful for it.


"When there is no time to do it, that’s when you most need to unclutter the calendar and go apart to pray. When the gridlock in your schedule relentlessly forbids it is the time you most need retreat. That is when your heart beats against the prison walls of your enslavement and says, 'Yes, Lord, I want to spend time with you.'" 
– Emilie Griffin

You can get a glimpse of what kind of place The Way will be through their website. You can see drawings of the plans, pictures and video of the location, and get a feel for the kind of place being created in order to give opportunities for people to encounter God. I hope that you will join our excitement. 

Particularly if you are in west Texas, it would be a great help for you to consider showing support for this by making a donation and/or joining their email list.

The Eleventh Day of Christmas: Christmas to the Church

I can’t imagine church without Christmas. I’ve been in church frequently from the time I was born, and a number of my favorite church memories have to do with Christmas.

One memory that still gets relived each year in my family is of when my oldest brother was home to visit with his new bride. My brother is 6’4”, and his wife is–well, I’m not sure of her exact height. I only know that she’s just the right size for her hair to be at the same level as my brother’s candle during a Christmas Eve service. I’m not sure if she felt something, or if it was the smell of hair burning that caught their attention, but younger brothers thrive on having things like that to tell about our older siblings. He has now successfully gone more than twenty years without lighting her on fire, but the story doesn’t go away. (By the way, I did not ask my brother’s permission to tell this publicly.)

Another memory is from years later when I was on staff at a church, and therefore was sitting on the platform able to see the whole, full sanctuary during our Christmas Eve service. I remember the richness of the entire evening, as a soloist sang “O Holy Night,” and then we all joined in on the hymns. When it was time to listen to the Scripture’s account of Jesus’ birth, I was gripped by the moment as everyone in the place stood in reverence for the words we were about to hear. Then, at the end of the service, to have everyone light their candles against the background of the darkness outside the sanctuary, it created a vivid memory that will remain imprinted on my mind. We were gathered there two millennia later, and on the other side of the world from Bethlehem, but still as people of the Messiah who was born there–just as millions of others of our brothers and sisters around the world were doing that same night.

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The Ninth Day of Christmas: Christmas According to Isaiah

It’s safe to say that Isaiah son of Amoz would be surprised to have his words included in a series of Christmas devotions being written by a Gentile Texan some 2,700 years after he lived. I wonder if he might go beyond being surprised and even issue me an old-style prophet’s rebuke, which he certainly knew how to do. The reason he might not see his inclusion here as an honor is because we Christians are often guilty of not listening to what he spent his life trying to say, because we think we already know the point. That is particularly true with the passages from Isaiah most important for us during these twelve days, those that get read and quoted during Christmas.

As I was getting ready to work on this series and spent some time looking at the traditional scripture readings for these twelve days, I was struck by how many of them come from Isaiah. For example, during the three year cycle of lectionary readings, the gospel of Mark never shows up. Four readings are from Matthew. John has six. And even Luke's eleven appearances share the lead for the most common source–with Isaiah.

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